true gender equality
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I was never welcomed into the gay community. From the moment I came out 10 years ago… I was never accepted. The fact that I was mixed race & a fat person didn’t help me out at all. I experienced so much negativity, racism, fell into a lot of bad habits & did a lot of stuff that I regret all because I wanted to fit in. I felt rejected & like I didn’t belong anywhere.
Then I found the bear community online via tumblr… I thought I finally found a place I could fit in. That my body & self could be accepted & loved…. I was so wrong. The same thing happened. This time including that fact that I wasn’t white but because I wasn’t the right type of “bear” I was cast out/overlooked. I also realized there was this weird obsession with being hypermasculine & hypersexualizing everything. This front that a lot of the bear community puts on is so weird & to me personally it is kinda lame. I don’t want to judge or make anyone feel like shit for liking that type of stuff. So I apologize if I offend you. Going through all of this I was left with this sadness & feeling like I would never fit in.
Not until about a month ago.. One of my photos & posts started getting around & people were reaching out to me. The majority of the people were fellow POC. I started to really feel I wasn’t alone. I also started to feel there was a community of people out there who feel as I do & wanted to accept me & anyone with open arms.
I thank those of you who do reach out to me & are just chill. I appreciate you.
Im experiencing that exact thing right now. I’m ftm trans and a bear. But every time I try joining gay communities I’m told to “go the hell away”. I’ve been made fun of for being fat and ugly my whole life. I’ve never had a person to person relationship, just online ones and they’ve all cheated on me. I’ve never been on a date and I’m still a virgin. To be honest I just want someone to love, who loves me in return, someone to kiss, hug and snuggle…but it feels like that’s never going to happen. Even other trans guys treat me like trash…you’d think they’d know what I was going through…but I guess not.
I’m happy for you for finding caring people. ^^
It was his real hair in this movie and I love it.This is what shampoo commercials look like in Jotumheim
“some of us are Black”
BUT WHY DOESN’T THIS HAVE ALL THE.NOTES.
This is too beautiful and important not to reblogMassive smile on my face right now
